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Ruzhdi Gashi-The Greatest Friend and Enemy We Have… Is OurselvesWithin us lie the keys to both hell and paradise.

In a world where we often point fingers at others for every wound, disappointment, or failure, we forget that the hardest battle is not fought outside of us — but within. Our greatest friend might be that inner voice giving us courage when everything else goes silent, and our most dangerous enemy might be that same voice when it turns into doubt, fear, or self-sabotage.

The self is a complex territory: a mosaic of emotions, memories, dreams, and insecurities. It supports us, but can also hold us back. It pushes us to rise, yet trembles at the height. Within us lives the light that guides us — and the shadows that make us lose our way.

We are the builders of our inner paradise through love, acceptance, patience, and the effort to be better. But we are also the ones who unlock the gates of hell through self-hatred, mistrust, and constant comparisons. One harsh word spoken to ourselves, one buried dream we never dared to chase — these can harm us more than any outer critic.

We hold the keys. The key to forgiveness, to freedom from emotional bondage, the key to say “yes” when fear trembles and “no” when sacrifice exhausts us. There is no more dangerous enemy than an unknown self, and no truer friend than a self finally understood and accepted.

At the end of the day, the greatest battle is not with the world, but with our insecurities, ego, and past. And the greatest peace is not what comes from outside, but what grows within, when we choose to be a friend — not an enemy — to ourselves.

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